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Monday, July 7, 2014

Kg Pandan Mini Samelan 2014

PANIC?
Not so much. 2 days before the samelan is due to begin, Belay Veerji (lawyer) loses his voice. Funnily enough, I (and the rest of the core team) am calm and proceed to ring my Golden Girl, Manpreet – just a quick “Can you do the 2 morning IPS sessions?” and a “Sure”. Just a quick run through about the session and its done.
Needless to say, it was a lovely session.

This is not a Mini Samelan, it’s a … MEDIUM samelan
We started the camp on a Wednesday. During the school holidays. At 7p.m. Logically, I expected lots of parents to bring/ send their kids on the Thursday before work.
I check with Pervin (who’s crazy knee deep in registration) at some point on Wednesday evening and there are 100 or so kids.
The ice breakers/ introduction/ games session was a hit.
By the time it is Thursday, there are close to 200 kids. The joy of this, the ‘Raunak’ is unparalled. Children all over the gurdwara, children heading to the youth and sports complex next door, children running up to you at intervals with a million questions, statements, observations, and yes – just for a quick hug and to say hi. (There is no way a sewadar, especially one who is involved with the Mighties can ever be tired when they get this)
And the heading – someone said this in disbelief looking at the organised chaos. And the fact that there was an actual Nikkey Khalsey section, complete with their own module, activities, sewadars.
Which brings us to the next point:

This is like an Annual Samelan  
We wouldn’t go so far as to say that, but what we will admit is that it probably does not conform to your idea of a ‘mini’ samelan. The routine was – Nitnem, Breakfast, Selami and Exercise, Learning Module or IPS, followed by IPS/ Learning Module (the Mighties and Miris were split here), followed by the M&M’s session (more on this later) and then lunch.
After lunch they have 4 hours of games and activities. These included a 4 Sanskar Workshop – where participants (both Mighties and Miris) were exposed to the Janam Sanskar (Naamkaran), Amrit Sanchar, Anand Karaj and Antim Sanskar elements. The Miri Piri participants had Autar Singh Ji – who asked them to include what they thought were superstitions semata-mata and I must say, those were hilarious (and highly accurate)!
Besides that the Miris had their group dynamics, which included team building games, station games, and mind and body challenges. (Thank you, awesome people who planned/ executed these)
Meanwhile, the Mighties were kept busy – on the first day, after the workshop they had a host of traditional/ classic games to choose from; kite flying, Pepsi Cola, snakes and ladders, board games, and even Twister (and loads more) which kept them well and entertained. The wide grin on face factor here for me was the fact that adults enjoyed themselves as well, mengisi masa lapang.  On the arts and crafts front they made some adorably adorable Singh and Kaur people on ice cream sticks. There was also a telematch session for them – this was almost a mini Holla Mohalla!
And of course, they were treated to their favourite superheroes on Saturday, when Super Kaur and Super Singh made an appearance.
OK OK, if you read on you'll realise I originally did not include some things, so on the Miri front there was a debate on current Sikh and general issues ; and this was such a paradigm change for some! Also, lest you think the Miris died of boring learning stuff, they had a host of activities including a Gurbani antakshari and such. 

IPS
If you are like us, and have been to a Samelan (Gurmat Parchar) – you will know that an all important part of the daily routine is the Inspirational Session (IPS). Deepest gratitude goes out to the following jathas who took the time out on a weekday.
Every single jatha NAILED it.

Manpreet Kaur, Balvinder Singh (Belay, Australia) (Doouble thanks for singing our favourite Har Sache Takht Rachaya on the guitar), Sukhdev Singh and the Sri Dasmesh Jatha and Band, Gurmukh Singh and Jatha, Serjit Singh (Senjay) for the talk, Autar Singh for coming despite a bad back! , and Harcharanijt Singh (Raja) with jatha for the perfect ending. (Note that I have randomly included non IPS speakers here, as I can do whatever I like in my post)
Near and far
The sewadars, who showed up from as far as Johor, deserve a Jaikara – for stepping in wherever needed, and to the local youngsters (read: children) who are now grown up enough, we cannot express how proud we are.
It is with Guru’s blessings that a 20 year old prepared (and headed) the Mighty Khalsa module and section.
The darbar committee consisted of two 18 year olds.
The mighties, miris and nikkey all had their own modules, set of materials, and other items set out – which could not have been possible without Rupinder Kaur, Pervinder Kaur; and Manraj Singh, Jagjeet Singh, Karamveer Singh, Rabinder Kaur (Bindi), Ajeet Singh, Gurpreet Singh, Gurleen Kaur, and the whole team preparing to a slight OCD level. HAHA
There were makeshift toilets created by a handful of the gurdwara sewadars  - these provided the ultimate showering experience of a samelan. WIN.

Gift
The theme was Banaa – and the take home gifts were – Turbans for boys, Dupattas for girls. This would not be possible without the kind gesture by Baldave Singh Ji of Leo Enterprises; who gave us amazing prices on the materials, provided free stitching, and got everything ready at express speed.
We are also blessed with amazing sangat, who only needed to be informed “There are materials to be washed” – they took as many as 40 turbans (6 meters each) home, lovingly washed, ironed and folded and brought them back ready for distribution. Penjis and Matajis, you inspire us.
Most of all, the gift is for us, the children, call us what you like, Balak Satsang, Naujawan Satsang – we are all the children of this gurdwara, and we are the children of the sangat.
It is thus that we can proudly say, our elders – or committee, call them what you want, hand us the reigns, sometimes unquestioningly – and let us grow.
And it is thus that we never have to worry if they are enough roti makers, enough penjis to help out, enough daal stirrers, bathroom washers, and so forth.
Another gift I will need to mention is that of the monetary support. Someone asked me where we get the money from, and we are extremely proud to say that it is because you, and people like you contribute, we are able to push ourselves and transform bigger and better plans into actions.

Mentorship
Here we are, at the M&M finally (Were you still wondering?).
Mighties and Miris, a session where both sections get to meet and interact with each other.  The idea : a 30 seconds to fame session ; where they would present the outcome of their interaction, and … you know.. meanwhile hoping that a friendship / veerji and penji ship / some kind of relationship is forged.
The outcome: an incredibly entertaining 30 second to fame – and the bonus? THOSE kids actually interacted/ became friends/ bonded/ whatever.
It was NOT easy – having LOADS of kids, the pairing/grouping, ensuring that on the day of the performance all Mighties had a Miri and so forth.
But thanks to all incredibly amazing people, it happened.
Everything was pre- planned, so on the day all sewadars knew their exact role in life (person to sort kids according to groups, hand out the numbers, the penji who called out the number, the penji ensuring stage smoothness, and so forth).
Also, very happy to say that our pre-existing Naujawan program got new members after the samelan – Bole So Nihaal, Sat Sri Akal!

SIKH (Yes, this is the edited version)
So what did we learn about? Continuing with the Annual Samelan theme ; Pehla Maran Kabool, Jeevan ki Chhad Aas - this shabad and that EPIC tune though, SO MUCH WIN.
The theme we went with is Bana ; from the Bani, Bana, Sewa, Simran and Satsang group. This is what the Mighties module comprised of, and we thought it would present well. 

There was lots to share with them, from being proud with your Saroop, your Values that you carry, how Bani helps, and so much more - the speakers, jathas and sewadars all did a spectacular job. 
Besides that, as you may have read above, there were a lot of other things to learn about, all this was enforced throughout. 

Taeh Dilo Dhanvad
I am typing this after some time, and I can’t remember if I have thanked the photographers, so – a big thank you to Samreet, the Media team, Deven, and all camera phone owners.
I would also like to seriously thank all of you who provided actual, real feedback - this helps immensely!! (and to that person who actually reads my blog, who gave us those statistics on Saturday - that was cool)
I now realise I have not actually explained the essence of what the theme and learning outcome was, oh well let's just say that's for another post anyway. ;) (OK maybe I'll just edit it into this post later!) 

Let me end this post here, and let me end by saying that if at any point I sound like a bragger, please disregard that thought, as all I am trying to do is share with you how amazing you all have been, and how much of an inspiration some things and some people can be to us. Also, our elders have appropriately ensured that we don’t get too big headed!  And most of all, how much fun we have all had, how much we have learnt and how Vaheguru has blessed us.


I hope you’ve had a good read, as always stay smiling, LOTS of love and God bless.